I Want To Be A Christian But I Don’t Know How!

I remember early in youth ministry one of my leaders asked us: “Why are some people still not yet Christians?”. In my head spun a host of theological answers to that question. It could be that they had some serious intellectual objections. Perhaps they weren’t willing to give it all up to follow Jesus. And ultimately, it’s a work of regeneration by the Holy Spirit, so maybe they’re just not ready.

My leader replied with a pithy answer that I’ll never forget: “It may be because no one’s ever showed them how to become one.”

In the last few months, I’ve deliberately met one-on-one with people who’ve been regular attendees at my church who have not yet become Christian or at least seemed unsure of their position before God. What I discovered were a couple of interesting things, none of which are rocket-science:

  1. Most of them didn’t understand the gospel very well, especially the notion of grace. What surprised me was that we constantly teach and preach about grace at church and in Bible study. And yet when it came down to it, they still thought that becoming Christian was sort of a ‘journey’ towards being more ‘Christian-like’ in thinking and behaviour. What this showed me was to never assume. When someone with a particular grid (i.e. works) hears grace, they will often still filter it through their existing works-paradigm. More often than not, it takes a personal conversation to point that out.
  2. A couple of them were just waiting for the invitation to become Christians. I had to ask them very directly: “So, you wanna do it now?” and show them how they could by praying a simple prayer with me. In the last two weeks, two men did exactly that. They had both been coming to church for a while (one for nearly 8 years, the other for the whole year). They were both ready, at the time of our conversation, to receive Christ, and they just needed someone to show them how.

Now of course behind all of this is the necessary work of the Holy Spirit in regenerating people’s hearts. However, regeneration isn’t always “pin-pointable” to a moment in time. God uses human means, and especially the means of prayer, to bring the fruit of regeneration to the fore. That’s where we come in.

Are there people in your church or Bible study group who may just be waiting for someone to meet up with them to clarify the gospel and extend to them an invitation to receive Jesus? My suspicion is that there are more than you think. And I reckon this is especially so in youth ministry. Don’t just wait for the big event evangelistic rallies. Find someone, pray for them, meet up with them, check they understand the gospel, and invite them to pray to become Christians. You might be surprised at how many will.


About Pete

I am a child of God, a husband, a father of four children, a pastor, and a church planter. I live in Sydney Australia and live to see Jesus made famous in this city and be the only God people worship.

Posted on November 4, 2011, in Ministry and tagged . Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. This is so true! Re: one of the guys you talked about, I had challenged him at Engage conference & after church a couple of weeks ago. I was surprised when he told me he might already be a Christian but wasn’t sure. My suggestion to him was that maybe he just needed to pray with someone & ask for forgiveness, etc. & I asked one of the church leaders to follow up with it. So really what he needed was a nudge & some guidance in the right direction & thank God that you met with him – he told me that he appreciated you being straight forward about it.

    We should learn to be more bold in challenging people with where they’re at. Often we’re too afraid of rejection.

  2. Jitendra jangid

    I want to become christian i am a indian i want to help

    • God has given you the ability to become one. All you have to do is tell him you accept the gift. Talking to God is easy, he hears everything, so you don’t need a code word or anything, just say it out loud, or in your head if you want. To continue your new life with God, find a church, read the bible, and do what God calls you to so.

      I wish you the best of luck, and God bless you.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: